Sheri Mueller, Marriage and More…

While sitting at my desk this morning listening to the rumble of thunder as spring storms approach, I am reminded of the storms every marriage encounters.  For some couples, challenges arise on the honeymoon.  For others, the storms clouds roll in a year or two into marriage, or once children arrive.  Thunderstorms are part of [...]

One of the greatest skills to acquire in marriage after a disagreement is the art of a true and sincere apology.   For some, this may seem like surrender, but surrendering pride is exactly what God wants us to do.  Proverbs 13:10 (NLT) tells us, “Pride leads to arguments; those who take advice are wise.” [...]

I am one who believes the romance and love of Valentine’s Day is something to weave throughout a marriage continually, not on one day established by Hallmark. Also, there is message Hallmark leaves out of the equation in their advertising and cards…sacrifice. I imagine they wouldn’t sell a thing if a card said, “I will [...]

There are numerous marriage tips available and it becomes difficult to sort them all out, and decide which are the best ones to implement. Well… hopefully I can resolve your dilemma. Recently, I was interviewed by WHCF Radio out of Bangor, Maine on marriage tips for the 40-day Love Dare Challenge the station is doing [...]

The Sex, Marriage and Fairytales video I came across this week  is done by a talented young man who is taking YouTube by storm with his inspired lyrics and unabashed love for God.   He speaks boldly and with such eloquence for someone who is not even married; yet, his message is one that every [...]

A new book came across my desk this week by Mark and Grace Driscoll entitled, Real Marriage – The Truth About Sex, Friendship & Life Together.  Touted as the talk of Christian publishing circles months before its release, I had to take a look and provide my honest appraisal. One thing the Driscoll’s do well [...]

For those who have been devoted followers of my blog in the past, I apologize for my long absence.  My intense focus in 2011 was to complete my undergrad and start my master’s program in counseling.   I’m happy to report I accomplished both goals and look forward to spending more time writing.   I appreciate your patience, [...]

This month there is a word that God keeps tossing my way -  immunity.  I keep asking, “What do you want me to do with immunity?”  I finally figured it out while working on a project, which required me to consider how I would counsel a friend or colleague who has fallen into sexual sin.   So, [...]

From time-to-time, in every marriage, there are periods where inspiration to connect, have fun, and try new things has vanished.  The energy to move forward simply isn’t there, and a lackluster attitude permeates the heart of the marriage.   Everyday activities and weekend plans are vanilla flavored instead of chocolate inspired with bits of toffee or [...]

Money issues will be a source of arguments in almost every marriage.  Money is often what we value for security, it’s what we survive on, and it has many emotional responses behind it.  There was a great article in the Chicago Tribune on June 12, 2010 that you can read here.   While I am not a [...]